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      <image:caption>Cecelia Mulberry Butler, AKA CeCe, CeCe Girl, Tongue Dog, Tonguie the Tongue, Tongue Jarvis Dog Ellis, Jarvis. My first born and forever favorite.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>“Celia” was one of a litter of puppies all named after characters in “Monsters, Inc.” It was the tongue that sold us. It’s been too big for her head since she was born, and we wouldn’t want her any other way.</image:caption>
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